The Challenge of Caring for Yourself in Overwhelming Times

In the spirit of modeling a wellness mindset, I’ve embraced “The enemy of progress is perfection” for these resources. While in an ideal world, I’d only produce evidence-based, academically sourced content, the reality of my life as a parent and professional demands flexibility. Thus, I share insights from my experiences, learnings, and memory. I prioritize accuracy, so if you spot any errors, please let me know.

Disclaimer: The content here is psycho-educational and/or opinion, and not a replacement for personalized psychotherapy. Each person’s mental health needs are unique; consult a qualified professional for personalized support.

In today’s fast-paced world, it can be incredibly hard to prioritize your own well-being. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or burnt out, struggling with chronic pain, or constantly ruminating over worries, finding the time and energy to care for yourself may feel impossible. Many of my clients come to me with heavy burdens—whether it’s managing perfectionism, fears, or the emotional toll of relationships where they overextend themselves. These feelings are often compounded by a sense that there’s simply no room for their own needs.

For many of my clients, therapy offers a much-needed space to breathe, reflect, and work through these challenges. But for some, taking that first step toward therapy isn’t just an emotional decision—it’s a financial one too.

Barriers to Accessing Therapy

While most of us know the value of mental health support, accessing therapy can feel like a luxury. You may be living paycheck to paycheck, with little left over for “extras.” Perhaps your family or children take financial precedence, leaving little room for your own needs. Or maybe the time and energy required to start therapy feels like just one more demand in an already exhausting life.

For others, barriers may include the stigma surrounding mental health and systemic challenges related to race, religion, or culture, which can make it hard to take that first step. People navigating difficult transitions, such as the loss of a loved one or significant life changes, might not realize that therapy could provide valuable support. For those suffering from depression, even the simplest tasks can feel overwhelming, making the prospect of seeking help seem insurmountable. Additionally, individuals in rural or remote areas may face limited options, further restricting their access to care. Whatever the barrier, it can feel like therapy is just out of reach.

These are real barriers, and they often prevent people from getting the help they need. You may have considered therapy before but felt unable to justify the cost, even though the emotional toll of your struggles continues to mount. And you are not alone in feeling this way.

Making Therapy Accessible for All

That’s why it’s so important to talk about accessibility. Therapy should be available to everyone, not just those who can easily afford it. Whether you’re managing burnout, chronic pain, anxiety, or perfectionism, you deserve support—regardless of your financial situation.

I’ve noticed that many people hesitate to seek therapy because they don’t believe they can afford it, but there are resources out there that make therapy more accessible. One such resource is student therapists—those who are still in training but already offer compassionate, skilled support at much lower costs, or sometimes even for free.

The Value of Therapy, Even on a Budget

Therapy has incredible value. It provides a space where you can unpack the pressures you’re facing, whether it’s setting boundaries in relationships, managing perfectionist tendencies, or finding ways to cope with anxiety. I’ve seen firsthand how therapy can help people shift their perspectives, gain clarity, and begin to heal from the emotional exhaustion they experience from always putting others first.

But therapy doesn’t need to break the bank to be effective. Many people are unaware that working with a student therapist can be just as valuable as working with a more experienced therapist. These student therapists are supervised by licensed professionals and bring fresh, current perspectives to the table, offering empathy and skill as they hone their practice.

Introducing Find a Student Therapist

That’s where my new website, www.findastudenttherapist.ca, comes in. This directory connects individuals seeking therapy with student therapists who offer low-cost or no-cost services. The goal is simple: to make therapy accessible to everyone, regardless of financial limitations.

Student therapists provide an affordable option without sacrificing quality, in person, online and over the phone. Many come with a wealth of life experience or previous work in related fields, giving them valuable insights and perspectives that enhance their therapeutic approach. They are motivated, compassionate, and eager to support people on their journey toward well-being. Additionally, being recent graduates, they are often well-versed in the latest research and evidence-based practices, ensuring their methods are current and effective. With their services supervised by seasoned professionals, clients can feel confident they’re receiving safe and effective care.

If you’ve ever thought about seeking therapy but felt financially restricted, or if you’re currently feeling stuck with anxiety, perfectionism, or burnout, consider exploring this option. The therapists in this directory are here to help—whether you’re new to therapy or have been trying to find a more affordable solution.

Moving Forward: Prioritizing Your Mental Health

Taking care of your mental health is essential, especially when life feels overwhelming. You don’t have to continue pushing your needs to the bottom of the list, and you don’t have to do it alone.

By prioritizing yourself—whether through my services or by working with a student therapist—you can begin to set boundaries, reduce anxiety, and manage the perfectionism or rumination that may be holding you back. Therapy isn’t just about managing crises; it’s about building resilience and reclaiming your well-being.

If the cost of therapy has been a barrier for you, I encourage you to explore the Find a Student Therapist directory. You deserve support, and affordable therapy is possible. No matter your financial situation, there is a way to take that important step toward caring for yourself.

I come with the perspective that you are the expert on yourself, I am an expert at psychotherapy, and we are both fallible humans. I don’t claim to have all the answers or know better than you. I will share resources, describe concepts and experiences, and contemplate out loud (in writing). The more I learn, the more aware I am of how much I do not know. 

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If you would be interested in exploring what therapy has to offer you, I’m here to help. KC Davis wrote, “Imperfection is required for a good life.” So, begin here and now, where you are already at, and I’ll meet you where you are.

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